Saturday, June 18, 2016

Five Facts About My Lolita Wardrobe

Another topic from the 365 Lolita Challenge: Share five facts about your wardrobe!

1. Almost all of my main pieces are brand



With the exception of my Sweet Mildred JSK, all of my dresses and skirts (not including the underskirts) are brand. After I bought my first piece years ago, I knew there would be no going back for me.

2. My wardrobe used to be entirely pink



Yep. Right now, I have mostly darker colors, but about a year and a half ago, I had mostly pink! A couple of Baby babydoll JSKs, an Angelic Pretty lucky pack dress, and even Happy Garden and the Sugar Pansy special set, all of it pink. This is why I still have pink shoes, a pink parasol, and my pink Usakumya.

3. Almost all of my main pieces were purchased second-hand



Again, my Sweet Mildred JSK is the exception, though it was still purchased for a similar price to a lot of my other dresses.

4. My clothes get hung up in sets



I pair blouses and JSKs on the hanger, and occasionally headwear and boleros. This saves on closet space, and is good for putting together coordinates so you don't have to scramble the week before a meet!

5. My Lolita clothes take up half the closet



We have a walk-in closet, and since my significant other only uses a quarter of the space, I was encouraged to use more space to set apart my "normal" clothes and my Lolita wardrobe.

Friday, June 17, 2016

Lolita 365 Cluster: Coordinate Challenges

I'm sorry that this post was late! I recently started a new job, and they've been having me very busy with training!

There have been a couple of themed coordinate challenges on Lace a la Mode's page in the last week, so I thought I could throw them together in this post! Let's get started~

Day 163: Design a Coordinate Based on a Book

I actually did a couple of these a long time ago, centered around the main characters of the Gregory Maguire novel, Wicked.


"The Glindaberry Bush" is from a very specific scene in the novel: it's just after the death of Nessarose, the Wick Witch of the East, and Glinda and Elphaba have a strained reunion. The description of Glinda's style is quite outrageous, and perfect for OTT Sweet/Hime Lolita.

OTT Gothic-- Elphaba

The Elphaba coordinate was a lot of fun, since she was the main character and there are so many symbols to associate with her. Almost all of it translated into accessories, such as the Innocent World bag for the Grimmerie, the black rose-patterned scarf, the flying monkey pin, the broomstick necklace, and the mirror ring. Of course, we also had to throw in a big, beautiful witch's hat and a couple of other Gothic accessories to round out the look.

OTT Classic Nessarose

Finally, I had to make a coordinate for Nessarose. In the books, she's described as being very much style savvy in her youth. During her introduction scene, as a teenager, she's described as wearing apple-green silk and a black shawl that all of the students at Shiz university wear. Along with a pair of silver beaded shoes (the Ruby Slippers were originally silver, though in Wicked they were described as having no color), I also added in a crucifix (she was extremely religious in life), and some more generic Classic-styled headwear, tights, and wristcuffs.

Day 164: Design a coordinate using contrasting colors


Lavender and yellow is my favorite Sweet color combo! That's part of the reason why I love Angelic Pretty's Sugar Pansy so much in the yellow colorway. I also would like to pair yellow with the lavender Dream Sky print.

Did you do any of these challenges this week? What's your favorite contrasting or complimentary color combo? Let me know in the comments below!

Tuesday, June 14, 2016

The Lolita Cliché - Who Am I?

Today, I'm writing about two different Lolita 52 Challenge topics that go together: which Lolita clichés I fit, and which ones I definitely don't. Identity and Lolita fashion, as well as your identity in Lolita fashion, comes up a lot in the community at large. How should we act, as ambassadors of the fashion in the "normal" world? Should we change ourselves to fit a certain image? What should that image be? Most people would say (and I'm one of them) that Lolita is just clothes, and it has about as much bearing on your character as what kind of food you like to eat, but plenty of others disagree.

That said, there are lots of ideas that we all have, Lolita and "normie," about who a Lolita is.

The Clichés I Don't Fit


1. I don't collect plush toys, like Tsum Tsums or vintage stuffed animals.

2. I'm not really into Japanese culture. The food's great, and I love eating it, and I can appreciate parts of Japanese culture like clothing, education systems, and religion, but that's about it.

3. I'm not into Asian pop music.

4. I don't wear wigs! I always think about it, but I usually end up preferring to spend that money on accessories like headwear and bags.

5. I'm not catty about other Lolita outfits, or I try not to be. And most people I know in the Lolita world aren't. This fashion has rules, and if you want to wear it, then you should follow them, but my comms and I aren't going to coldly shun you if you don't get it quite right.

6. I don't stick with one Lolita style or color. As impractical as it is, I'd really like to have a wardrobe that has a good mix of Gothic, Classic, Sweet, and a few of the substyles that I really enjoy.


The Ones I Do


1. I love tea. Reading tea leaves is a favorite hobby of mine.

2. I try to bring cuteness and elegance into as many parts of my life as I can, even outside of Lolita.

3. I like reading poetry, plays, and classic stories like Alice in Wonderland, and have my own copies of my favorite titles. If I can spend my reading time lounging around in the park on a sunny day in my frills, it's even better.

4. I love, and own, Ragdoll cats. This might sound a little weird, but think about it: what cat breeds would you associate with a Lolita? Persians and Ragdolls are quite often favorites because of their long, lovely fur and sweet, cherubic faces. They're very ladylike felines, at least in looks.

5. I'm a brandwhore. I'll admit it. I can appreciate beautiful off-brand, indie, and Bodyline pieces, and will absolutely incorporate them into my outfits, but nothing will ever compare to the big brands for me.

6. I speak a "classy" second language. I don't think any language is "better" than any other, but French is one of those snooty choices that any stereotypically "proper" Victorian lady would know. I'm not fluent, but I can get by, and I love it dearly.

How do you fit or fall outside of of the Perfect Lolita Image? Let me know in the comments below, or link me to your blog post (if you made one)!

Saturday, June 11, 2016

Lolita and Rococo Pt. 2: Our Devil's in the Details

A while ago, I wrote up this post about the basics of the French Rococo period with the intention of talking about how all of this relates to Lolita and its inspirations-- mainly because I'd seen a handful of people hotly arguing that Rococo was never an inspiration for our beloved hobby. Though Lolita fashion didn't really make an appearance in my last post, it's important to get a decent grasp on the aesthetic movement in question before diving into the real meat of the debate.


Which leads us to today's discussion: what about Lolita has come from Rococo origins?

Before we begin, it's important to remember that Lolita is not supposed to be a direct recreation of Rococo fashion, just as it isn't a knock-off of any other era (as much as we like to think it's modern-day Victoriana). Lolita fashion is merely inspired by these time periods, and otherwise given a look all its own.


It's easy to find something nowadays that looks like it was plucked off the set of some Marie Antoinette movie. Mary Magdalene's Fleur Antoinette OP is probably one of the more well-known pieces, especially since it's been produced since 2009, but even Baby and Angelic Pretty put out plenty of OPs with the traditional trappings of Rococo fashion. 2009 isn't, by far, the oldest occurrence of my two favorite interests mixing.

Sadly, the now-defunct website HelloLace had much more of the super-old brand pieces than Lolibrary does now, so many of my earlier examples are lost to the sea of the Internet, particularly from the brand Millefleurs Mille Noir. However, that doesn't mean that I wasn't able to scare up a few images from the very early 2000s.

1. Lines of Interest


If you look at the Angelic Pretty JSK above, you'll want to study the vertical strips of lace that run from the top of the straps to the ruffle near the hem of the skirt. Oftentimes, these two lines are used to help separate out blocks of color, like in the Fleur Antoinette OP above, or this Innocent World Pompadour JSK.

Historically, these lines were primarily on the bodice and at a sharper angle, drawing the waist in visually. This added to the preferred silhouette of the aristocracy, which involved a small waist and gigantic skirts.

2. Embellished Bodices; Ruffles and Bows


Ruffles and bows are very common details in most fashion periods, and the 18th century was no different. The necklines and bodices were usually adorned with at least a small lace ruffle along the neckline and one bow on the bust, if not a line of them extending from collarbone to the waist. Many jumperskirts and onepieces have this sort of design, especially since detachable bows have always been so popular.


Rows of pintucks and lace can also be used as relatively simpler adornments on the bodice, though these would have been merely a backdrop for more bows in the 18th century French court.

3. Princess Sleeves -- Some of Them


This image is from 2012, but Meta and other brands have been making blouses and dresses with similar sleeves for a lot longer. "Princess sleeves" refer to, in the Lolita world, sleeves that flare out like a trumpet, much like sleeves that a stereotypcial medieval princess would wear. For our purposes, we're only talking about a very specific sleeve.


A Rococo-styled princess sleeve is fitted at the upper arm and ends at the elbow in a large ruffle or a flared sleeve that extends anywhere from an inch to about halfway down the forearm. At the seam between the fit and the flare, there is usually lace, ribbon, or another bow to fancy it up a bit, and the lower part of the sleeve is usually trimmed in lace. 

4. The Square Neckline


Rococo fashion has just about one neckline, and it's this one. While you can find the square neck in plenty of other fashions, trimming it with ruffles and lace and using it as a guide for the trim that runs all the way down the bodice turns it into something distinctly 18th century. 


Because this is Lolita, though, and we tend to fiercely pride ourselves on our level of skin coverage, the traditional Rococo neckline has been raised, so as not to show cleavage (or, at least, to show as little as possible).

5. Hats and Feathers


Okay, so these came into the Lolita picture fairly recently; the Rococo-styled hats, feather, and rose corsages entered the scene on the waves of the Hime Gyaru crossover. They're still  an integral part of making a Lolita outfit Rococo-inspired.

There is one other variety of headwear that shoves an outfit firmly into the Rococo category, and that's the kind that you normally wouldn't put on your head.

Last Melody Violin Hair Accessory

I'm not sure if Marie Antoinette ever wore a tiny violin in her hair, but with all the things the aristocracy shoved into their wigs, I wouldn't surprised if someone had. With the rise of Classic Lolita, especially over-the-top coordination, we've seen plenty of headdresses like this one by Sweet Mildred, with things like instruments and books. Though one could argue that it's just the Classic translation of the Sweet headwear (with icecream cones and cat-eared berets), it still reminds me of the infamous ship wig.


... though, maybe not quite as big.

There are other inspirations drawn from the Rococo period, including the rare cape that Baby tacked onto the back of the Arietta Princess Ball Gown, but these aren't nearly as common.

The Rococo period's aesthetic is near and dear to my heart, and one of the many reasons why I love Lolita fashion. To say that the latter had never taken inspiration from the former before recent years is certainly incorrect.

Whatever cues Lolita takes, it is still a fashion that's entirely its own. It takes vintage and historical styles and puts a modern day spin on them, reshaping them until they're no longer truly Victorian, Edwardian, Rococo, from the 50s, whatever. It's simply Lolita, and simply beautiful.

Thursday, June 9, 2016

365 Lolita Lifestyle Photography Challenges

There were lots of topics for this challenge since the end of May that have had to do (or I made do) with pictures, so I decided to put them all on one post!

Day 148: Carry Something to Take Notes On and Fill it With the Wonderful Things About Your Day

Or: I took a long walk around the lake and took pictures of some of the good things I saw.










Day 151: Photograph Your Favorite Lolita Purse


Ruby had a long day at Colossalcon-- I loaned her and the rest of a coordinate to a friend. She's been chilling in my desk ever since.


Day 154: Design a Coordinate Based on a Uniform

This is usually a pretty easy challenge: there are a lot of pieces, particularly Angelic Pretty, that look like they were inspired by the typical school uniform. Lots of pleated skirts, and plenty of sailor-collar-styled tops and dress bodices. I wanted to try something different, though I can see a lot of other people trying this out for their uniform of choice, too.


This is based on the girl's uniform from Ouran High School Host Club. It's definitely a warmer outfit because of the layers, but using a cutsew instead of a blouse should help that.

Tuesday, June 7, 2016

ColossalCon 2016!

This past weekend was ColossalCon, one of the bigger, more popular conventions in Ohio, and I go for at least one day every year. This year, I was a little sad that it was only one day, because all of the Lolita events were spread out across the four days: panels on Thursday, fashion show on Friday, tea party on Saturday, and I think there was a swap meet on Sunday.

I chose to go Saturday, because I prefer social events to the fashion shows, and the tea party was lots of fun! I even got pictures, something that I'm normally bad at remembering to do.



The food was good-- I was really appreciative of the fresh fruit at the pancake bar. And we had another game that we also played last year-- print design! This time around, I chose "Starry Rose Perfume," inspired by a scene from The Princess Diaries. I wasn't able to finish it, but I might try again in my own sketchbook.

Here are some shots of the other Lolitas at the tea party (I forgot to get a photo taken of my own coord, oops!). The lighting was sort of terrible inside, but everyone still looked really cute!


There were so many chocolate prints. The center right Lolita was
the winner of our coordinate contest! I'm in love with the custom-
made headpiece.

Two of the lovely ladies I sat with

The other two lovely ladies I sat with!


We went outside to take group pictures, but candids are my favorite.

Finally, what's a convention without con swag? I won these bows and this gorgeous veil from the tea party raffle; both were made by Elegy!


Sweet Mildred had a table with all of her lovely headpieces and accessories. I was excited to see her rings made of keys, and picked one up for my Time Lag World JSK, as well as the teacup necklace just to have something cute to wear with my normal wardrobe.


Finally, I snagged a bunched of little accessories from the RawrTiger table, which is run by one of the Ohio EGL mods. She makes lots of sweet accessories and tights. I've been wanting some of these traditionally OTT Sweet accessories for a long time, and was happy to find something strawberry-themed for my berry prints, so they came home with me! She also does custom-colored resin items, like her popular macaron necklaces and shell clips (which I dearly want).

All in all, it was a fun day, though I was exhausted for the rest of the weekend. I can't wait to go again next year, hopefully for more than one day.

Did any of you go to ColossalCon 2016? Attend any of the Lolita events? Let me know in the comments below!

Saturday, June 4, 2016

10 Things You Can't Live Without in Lolita

1. Gothic & Lolita Bibles



Even in the midst of a bad day, month, or season, in which I can't bring myself to wear Lolita, I have my Bibles within arm's reach to look through and get my fix of beautiful things.



2. Cardigans and Boleros




I hugely prefer these to blouses, especially since I have a taste for full-coverage prints that I often want to break up and tone down with blocks of color. When worn in just the right way, they can also be used to help define your waist and smooth out your bodice.



3. Over-the-Knee Socks




These are by and large my preferred leg wear. I find tights to be uncomfortable, and anything knee-length or shorter usually doesn't look flattering on my legs.



4. Petticoats




Because, with very few exceptions, what is Lolita without the silhouette-shaping underfluff?



5. My Makeup Arsenal



Disclaimer: this isn't my makeup, I pulled this off of Google

I almost never leave my apartment without at least minimal makeup, and Lolita absolutely feels incomplete to me if I decide to walk around with a bare face.



6. Bloomers




I know this keeps making its way into my lists, but I'm just super dependent on bloomers! They're perfect for modesty in windy weather and guarding against thigh chafing.



7. Baby, the Stars Shine Bright




I don't think I would have fallen nearly as hard for Lolita as I did if it hadn't been for my all-time favorite brand! Baby is just so classically Lolita. If someone asked me to define Lolita for them, all I would have to do is direct them to the Classic Series page on the BtSSB website.



8. Metamorphose temps de Fille




On the flip side, I don't think I would have been able to really build up any confidence in wearing Lolita if it weren't for Meta! Their clothes are comfortable, easy to wear, and often found cheap on the secondhand sales, and my first brand dress was a Meta JSK that I still have and love.



9. Lace Market




I know it's a love-to-hate website, but it's frankly the easiest secondhand selling site that I've used. Most of my transactions, either buying or selling, have taken place here, and I'll definitely continue to use it.



10. Other Lolita Bloggers




Lolita bloggers have always been my #1 inspiration and resource for Lolita fashion: Parfait Doll and F Yeah Lolita! in particular are the two I first found, and still go back to when I'm feeling uninspired. Being able to hear from and see the Lolita world through different people is absolutely invaluable, and you should never stop searching for new blogs to check out. You never know who might spark an idea in your mind for your next great coordinate!
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